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Some people seem to have themselves figured out pretty quick. For the rest of us, identity is like a Matryoshka doll. Pull one layer off, and you don't seem to change much, but the process of coming to terms with it teaches you to see the crack that
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I discovered that trying to write one big blob does not work for me. I can get as far as 2000 words before the volume overwhelms. As with many things in life, breaking it down into pieces helps a lot! This is where most outlining writers suggest a big bulleted
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I found this highly relatable. I can easily go a month without going out. And my idea of going out involves a camera and nature, far from people. I lived in a proper city for a year and a half and my favorite moments involved walking all the sidewalks almost
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Sometimes it’s healthy to subject yourself to painful or traumatic things in a controlled way to reduce your sensitivity to it. I did not like Joe Rogan going into this project. Hearing him out for hours didn’t improve my impression. But I did hear him out. Joe Rogan
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Polyamory is when people decide to have some kind of relationship and are open to the idea of it not being exclusive. The shape of these relationships is highly situational and personal. There’s basically two ways polyamory goes down: 1. You learn a lot about yourself and unpack all
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Between the Coats: A Sensitivity Read Changed my Life - an Essay by Sarah GaileyI’m queer, which is why I always thought I’d be dead by now. I grew up standing just inside the open door of the closet, like a cat looking out the window at a
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Avoiding having a take on big world stuff is a good instinct. It's easy to rush in with an opinion informed by incomplete information, ignorance, and outright propaganda. Big World Things have two major components. * The past * The present Both components have aspects that are simple and complicated.
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I've got you. You like having your notes as real files you can touch and smell on your file system but you need an app for your phone and computer and a way to sync between them: Obsidian (free, offers a paid sync function but works with other
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For me, this is a relative I can't avoid in my current situation. I could get mad at him. But…it won’t help. It’ll just make me more stressed, and it won’t register with him that he needs to be better any more than the